This is not a how to book, there are plenty of those. This is a concept book which explains who to go to, to get the answers. We have available to us the wisest Counselor in the universe. The Holy Spirit is the wisdom of God available to us. Couples desperately need the power and wisdom of the Holy Spirit to transform their marriage into God’s best for them.
Their life will change by discovering the secret which is an intimate relationship with the Holy Spirit. He is wisdom and truth personified, He is our Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Eternal Father and Prince of Peace. The Holy Spirit is not weird or spooky, He should be our best friend! As scripture points out in John, the Holy Spirit is Jesus living within us. Jesus said that it was better for us if He went away. Because if He went away, He would send the Helper, the Holy Spirit to remind us of the things which Jesus said and reveal the truth of His word concerning our situation.
We take this concept of an intimate relationship with the Holy Spirit as our counselor and apply it. For example there are chapters in our book on prayer, commitment, money and forgiveness. At the end of each chapter we end with a prayer designed to empower couples to hear from the Holy Spirit regarding that chapter’s topic. Our book gives the reader everything they will need to begin a dynamic relationship with the Holy Spirit.
Alan and Jamie are the marriage pastors at Inverness Vineyard Church in Birmingham, Alabama. They lead the marriage ministry there which includes counseling at risk couples, mentoring, leading a vibrant small group for young married couples and counseling premarital couples. They are authors and conference speakers. Having written their first book Third Cord Secret several years ago, they lead marriage events and speak in churches on marriage topics. Their book is being used for small group study and as a counseling tool by churches nationally. They have seen marriages restored and recreated through understanding the Holy Spirit’s role as Counselor, actually the wisest counselor in the universe.